I matched with an attractive American woman on Tinder, and she responded to my initial message
I matched with an attractive young woman in the US.
For the first message, I simply asked:
"What is your favorite color?"
Then I started thinking what my next message should be. The favorite color thing was just to see if she was a real match. I decided that for my next message I would say something unique about her profile, to keep the conversation from being too "canned". I noticed that she looked young for her age (her profile said she was 27), so for my next message I said:
"Thanks. You look significantly younger than your age."
Then she immediately unmatched me!
What did I do wrong? Was I wrong to message her saying that? Being someone who has never gone on a date at 31, I am truly clueless about these things.
Re: I matched with an attractive American woman on Tinder, and she responded to my initial message
Now that I think of it, when I messaged Colombian women on Tinder I also said things that may have come across as being weird. But it didn't result in them unmatching me milliseconds later. A couple of times, I would say something weird and this would result in the Colombian women not responding for a while, and then a day or two later they would restart the conversation. Messaging American women is more like talking to a highly irritable, ultra-powerful, and explosive authoritarian tyrant, where you tremble because you know that if say something just slightly wrong then it is over for you.
I think if I sent that message to a Colombian woman and she thought it was weird then she would have just said so. Colombian women seem more "human" than psychotic American cunts.
Similar things happened to me when I messaged a Chinese woman and I said something she didn’t like (she’s says she went to England and I told her that it’s best not to come to the west because the west is failing) she cut me off despite we had good things going.
What you described is not exclusive to American women it’s natural in modern women