I matched with an attractive American woman on Tinder, and she responded to my initial message

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I matched with an attractive American woman on Tinder, and she responded to my initial message

OmegaKV
I matched with an attractive young woman in the US.

For the first message, I simply asked:

"What is your favorite color?"

She responded:

"Pink"

Then I started thinking what my next message should be. The favorite color thing was just to see if she was a real match. I decided that for my next message I would say something unique about her profile, to keep the conversation from being too "canned". I noticed that she looked young for her age (her profile said she was 27), so for my next message I said:

"Thanks. You look significantly younger than your age."

Then she immediately unmatched me!

What did I do wrong? Was I wrong to message her saying that? Being someone who has never gone on a date at 31, I am truly clueless about these things.
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Peter
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She’s not attracted to you would be the modern answer

She sounds like a damn bitch
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And she probably got matched with a better looking guy than you

The fact you are on the web desperately looking for a date speaks volumes about your SMV

You clearly don’t have qualities they are looking for
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Peter
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I am sorry that i come off as very abrasive in my answer. On a comforting note ask yourself this:

Would your life be better with or without people like her in it?
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OmegaKV
Now that I think of it, when I messaged Colombian women on Tinder I also said things that may have come across as being weird. But it didn't result in them unmatching me milliseconds later. A couple of times, I would say something weird and this would result in the Colombian women not responding for a while, and then a day or two later they would restart the conversation. Messaging American women is more like talking to a highly irritable, ultra-powerful, and explosive authoritarian tyrant, where you tremble because you know that if say something just slightly wrong then it is over for you.

I think if I sent that message to a Colombian woman and she thought it was weird then she would have just said so. Colombian women seem more "human" than psychotic American cunts.
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Peter
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Good analogy. This happens to unattractive men. You think the handsome bad boys worry about any of those things you described when they are messaging women?
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Peter
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Similar things happened to me when I messaged a Chinese woman and I said something she didn’t like (she’s says she went to England and I told her that it’s best not to come to the west because the west is failing) she cut me off despite we had good things going.

What you described is not exclusive to American women it’s natural in modern women
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Allen
Modern skanks are constantly messaging with people and so don't attach the same importance to conversations that men sometimes do, so of course they are going to flippantly cut you off.
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Peter
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If they are actually attracted to you, you’ll be shocked how forgiving women can be, even if you are downright mean to them.