I asked a question here, using ChatGPT to mask my writing tone, so that I wouldn't come across as an "incel":
https://old.reddit.com/r/bahai/comments/1bo3if5/a_young_bahais_reflection_seeking_understanding/Of course, because women seem to never get enough sympathy, someond cuckingly said that there are more lonely young women than lonely men. Of course this is bullshit but I didn't bother denying it. Instead I responded to him with the following, which I thought everyone would find reasonable:
If there is a surplus of single Bahai women who are looking for a husband, one thing the community could potentially do to help may be to introduce them to the minority of young men as a way of giving the youth an opportunity to find someone compatible. I am a single Bahai man who is active in Baha'i activities and service, and no one ever introduces me to women in my age range, or tells me where to go to meet them, or invites me to gatherings where single women my age are present. I'm not saying you're wrong that there are single women, but if there are then why does it seem so difficult for me as a single man to find and meet them?
Then a poster who is the top mod of that subreddit responded with the following:
Why is this the responsibility of the Baha'i community? Like if you were part of a DnD group, and were asking why aren't my DnD friends finding me a spouse? This is your job. Are you putting in the work to make yourself someone who others are attracted to? Or are you expecting others to do important things for you?
I normally have pretty good self control but reading this shit just makes me want to scream and start chimping out. I fucking hate the Bahais.
Can you believe it? I reach out for help from my community, the people who are supposed to be on my side, and what they tell me is:
"This is your job. Are you putting in the work to make yourself someone who others are attracted to? Or are you expecting others to do important things for you?"
What kind of community is that?
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